For all of our events, we meet in Mexico and the US simultaneously through the border fence. On the US side, we convene at Border Field State Park and on the Mexican side at the In_Site garden. There a two places where we meet. Either in the park which is on a mesa ovelooking the beach and ocean or down on the beach. In the park there is a friendship circle with a monument in the middle. The circle is divided in two by a corrugated fence. It is easy to converse through the fence, but there aren't really any spaces big enough to shake hands (just fingers). On the beach, there are tall poles that have more space in between. See pics below.